Talks and Laughter

So we had the talk. It was not so bad. I merely asked if she wished to come out. She does - like yesterday. She claims things are not well with her mom. They have not been for awhile.

I asked if she knew that things were not going to be the same with her father. She said ya but i'll work on him. (Ha! I'd like to see that one!) I told her that she would not have the many luxuries that she has now. Basically at 18 she runs that household over there. Mom decided to be her friend instead of a mother. She does what she wants when she wants to - period. Sir will NEVER stand for that in his own house. When there i could just see the teeth cut marks in his tongue from biting it so hard!

I advised that she should try to work things through with her mom - which she insists is impossible. Nothing is ever impossible. I advised it is bad to leave on bad terms. Far better to leave on happier ones. That there are things to consider - medical coverage, jobs, where she is to stay and for how long.

She asked if her father had EVER said to me that he didn't want her around. And i honestly told her - that we have discussed her moving out with us before. And we re-discussed it after we came back from visiting with them. And we re-discussed it again yesterday. Never EVER once had he said he didn't want her there. In fact he very much wants her near. He has, however, said that right now is not the best time for moving. That the fall would be better as things will be much more settled by then. She seemed relieved at this.


In the end she was firm that she is coming back with us after her older sister's brain surgery. I was equally firm that she needs to discuss with her father FULLY before making any serious plans on this. That i will support whatever her father decides fully. That if he says no - then its no and i will not go back at her insistence to try to 'work on him' to change his mind. That i would love her to be with us, however that it is a decision that her father will make.

In the end i discovered - OMG she is as stubborn as the day is long!!

Then she went on to tell me of her two new piercings she got done. One in the tongue one in the clit. OMG the description of her clit piercing nearly made me fall over! Grant you i was laughing so very hard a the same time so it was not so bad. She told me that she was screaming so loud that people in the shop were leaving! I was soooo laughing!! And when i could finally breathe all i could say was.. Well, you cured me from EVER asking if i could get one of those!!

:)

We're still talking. Things so far are still more then well between us despite the fact that i spoke to her of her moving!